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After the Ink Dries: The 5 Stages of an Indie Author Surviving the Universe
Stage 1: The Void (Loss and Disorientation) So here’s what I’ve learned in my indie-author journey thus far. Not the writing part—not where you pull your soul out of your chest and transcribe it onto pages. That I don’t have the words for yet. I’m talking about the part after… after it’s all in book form and you’re ready to sell it. Yep, I’m talking about the part where the book meets the universe. First and foremost, there will be a sense of loss. This book—this book baby yo

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Jan 263 min read


Women.Life.Freedom
Women. Life. Freedom. These three words contain a multitude of emotions. Pain, anguish, perseverance, and hope. Hope that the world is...

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Dec 16, 20222 min read


Eff It, I'm 40!
Dearest Readers, It has been a hot minute since I chatted with you. I hope you’re doing well and navigating thru the obstacle course of...

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Oct 13, 20223 min read


7 Years = 7 Pages
7 years ago today, I published my first novel and I have been on a hiatus ever since. But no more! I've been told that writing a novel is...

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May 15, 20229 min read


Frida Kahlo: The Immersive Experience
I fell in love with Frida Kahlo when I was 20 years old. She was featured in a Woman and Creativity class. I was captivated by this...

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Apr 17, 20223 min read


What are we doing here?
Does it feel like we’re tap dancing at the edge of the world while it collapses underneath us? The news is terrible, like next-level bad....

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Mar 23, 20222 min read


The Crazy-Makers
We are born into a life filled with obstacles, responsibilities, and chemical imbalances that are not of our own making. It’s as if a...

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Sep 19, 20212 min read


To: Palestine...With, Love
I am tired of the world acting like the Israeli-Palestinian conflict is a feud as old as mankind between the prophets, as they rolled a...

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May 16, 20216 min read


The Big Bang
“Billions of years before, on the same night, the big bang had taken place, and from then on everything drew apart and continued to draw...

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Apr 1, 20212 min read


Sitting with My Demons
Fear rests right under my rib cage. It pulsates slowly, oozing out insecurities until my bloodstream is filled with nothing but longing...

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Nov 10, 20202 min read


Goodbye For Now....
Dear Readers, This is dedicated to the solid 5 people who read my blog 😊 You are deeply treasured and I adore you muchly!!! The last two...

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May 25, 20202 min read


Diary of a Queasy Quarantinite
I woke up with the best of intentions. I had my to-do list. It was solid: 1. Clean House 2. Work-Out 3. Shower 4. Go Grocery shopping 5....

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May 10, 20203 min read


Children of Stardust
Stay In, Stay In, Stay In That’s the march, my friends Don’t look left, don’t look right Just stay put with all your might But why is it...

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May 3, 20202 min read


Groundhog Day, Week, Month…?
I woke up annoyed this morning. Annoyed and irritated that I couldn’t go to my favorite breakfast spot (Elly’s Pancake House) and order a...

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Apr 5, 20202 min read


Reconciling with Rejection
The hardest moment in life comes right after a rejection.

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Mar 30, 20202 min read


The MindFuckery of Men
Men are simple creatures, truly. They need to be fed, hydrated and given access to video games. Which is why it’s important to note that...

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Jan 19, 20202 min read


20/20 Vision
We are in a future that feels oddly like the past. When I pictured 2020 what came to mind was a shiny gray world filled with steel...

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Jan 9, 20203 min read


Bienvenido A Santa Domingo
Welcome to Santa Domingo—the first city of the New World! What does that mean exactly? It means that the capital of the Dominican...

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Dec 29, 20193 min read


La República Dominicana
The Dominican Republic is a sugar rush to your senses. The air is thicker, the ocean is bluer, the green leaves gleam and the white sands...

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Dec 22, 20192 min read


Cognitive Desire
Cognitive dissonance is a term that refers to holding two or more contradictory thoughts in our heads, and being made to feel...

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Dec 9, 20192 min read
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